P*ssy Power and Pleasure
Ladies, are you making the most of your Pussy Power?
‘Wait, what? What is Pussy Power?’ I hear you ask.
Pussy Power is a seldom-used, little-known gift of listening to your Pussy and what She pulls you towards. This is about more than sex. It’s about connecting to the inner wisdom of your Pussy, using pleasure as a compass in your life and business.
You do this by embracing a different state of mind, approaching everything with your Pussy Power and incorporating the Pleasure Principle.
Here’s a fact: Women have a part of their body designed purely for pleasure. Studies show the clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings and no other purpose than pleasure. That’s right — only pleasure! The penis has roughly the same amount of nerve endings spread over a larger area and is a multi-purpose tool. So, it’s a fact that women are built for pleasure and have the tool for it!
When I first started to look at the idea that women are built for pleasure and could use it as a guide, I felt indulgent, a bit naughty, and wondered if it was only about sex. Also, my rational mind puzzled over how I could use my Pussy to guide my business. Like, really?
YES! REALLY!
I attended a class taught by Josh Pais where I learned that getting messy was safe, and all emotion is energy which I could use productively. I learnt to change something bad into something useful, meaning nothing was lost.
I applied this to other parts of my life. Like my Pussy. For so long, I had ignored Her: the first part of my cycles felt productive and good, and the second part, where I felt tired and emotional, felt useless to me — until I learnt about messy being safe. Hanging out in the mess took me somewhere juicy, with more energy and perspective than I could have imagined. Instead of trying to escape, I got comfortable relaxing into it, riding the emotional wave, which is energising and constantly evolving.
This shift out of a binary view of my emotions — this is good, this is bad — was liberating! Many spiritual paths solely focus on ‘love and light’, ignoring the shadows. This new liberation let me explore areas I’d been scared of, going deep into the shadows without shame, curious to know myself. I learnt about allowing myself pleasure, whether it be through sex or self-nurturing.
‘Permission’ for women is a touchy subject, yet it’s something we can give ourselves! I never imagined my Pussy could be used to guide my life, rather than as just a sexual tool. This subject is considered taboo, rarely discussed with an open mind. But my friends and I started talking about what I call the Pleasure Principle and using it, and there’s been no looking back.
I learnt the Pleasure Principle can be about sex but also simple pleasures, like fresh air, warm baths, hugs, cosy fires, and knowing when to ask for help. Asking your Pussy what inspires Her is simple yet powerful in any situation.
Does pleasure scare you? I realised I’d been overwhelmed by the idea of having so much pleasure in my life. Fear only resides in your head — if you say ‘eff you’ to fear and dare to explore and try new things, you learn that pleasure is powerful when it comes to your life and business.
Finding pleasure in everything you do opens you up to more pleasure, bringing joy to your perspective and approach.
Women are natural caretakers. However, if we miss out on nurturing ourselves first, we sabotage ourselves. When you are in right relationship with yourself and with pleasure, you receive more joy and energy for what you give out.
The Pleasure Principle consists of:
- Keeping your Pleasure Cup full: You know that saying: ‘You must fill your cup first before giving to others’? It’s true — when your cup overflows, you can help others fill their cups.
- Bringing pleasure to everything you do: Always ask yourself, ‘How can I do this with the most pleasure?’ For example, you can play music while cleaning and turn a chore into a dance party.
When you bring pleasure to the smaller things, the larger things follow suit. You’ll be unapologetically yourself, deliciously vibrant, joyful to be around, living your fullest potential.
This feminine approach flows effortlessly: no more struggle, hustle, or pushing to make things happen.
My pleasures are chocolate, belly laughs, sitting around a table with people I love. Luxurious baths. My bed. Beautiful, fragrant flowers in my home and garden.
What are yours?
Find what fills your Pleasure Cup and lights up your soul, and bring more of that into your life. Start feeling into your Pussy Power and living by the Pleasure Principle and watch the possibilities unfold.
